what women want.

you need to watch this video before you read my craps writing >:)

i first watched this video long time a ago. but i still go rofl every time i watch this.

sweet-ugly truth about women

1) women can change their minds every single time.they tend to confuse with what they actually want.

scenario one: you can always see/listen how women telling/bragging how much they want a good man. but when  a good man comes, they will reject him & chase after a 'not-so-good' man, who has potential to be a jerk and hurt her in the future (and women know about this fact)

scenario two: today they claim they dont like bla bla bla & boldly reject him, but the next day they woke up regretting with what they said yesterday. 

scenario three: texting 'i miss you'. after some minutes, they will go like 'why did i texted him? i dont miss him anymore' OR texting 'i dont like you. seriously. i hope you respect my decision', but after a while she will go 'why did i say that? :( aww i actually love him!' 

scenario four: want to buy Coach or Fossil? or maybe should spend this money on food? bla bla bla bla bla (with no end.)

HAHA #trufax

2) women have the ability to love and hate at the same time

scenario one: a broken-hearted girl will always say 'i hate him. he is so cruel. he doesn't deserve me. i wont accept him anymore. he is a jerk'. but honestly, when the night comes, she didn't fell asleep crying because she miss him .

scenario two: explains much why women still forgive and accept a JERK who hurt her like hell? -.- she accept him back, but inside her heart she always has the mixed feelings: am i doing a right thing? i actually dislike him, but i cant go live w/out him.

scenario three: a girl who has a relationship with not-so-good man always think she deserves someone better :P hoho. 

3) women could go bragging/bubbling/crying without any concrete reason (you can relate this with pms -.-)

scenario one: there is one time, i accompanied a friend of mine to shop some groceries. she non-stop bragging about whatever-nonsense things.(and she has no reason to be mad/upset) guys, if you experiences this, just shut up and listen :) dont get emotional too and scold her. just be calm and tutup telinga. that's what i did :) trust me it works every single time.

scenario two: crying+mengada. it always happen. let me emphasize, always. i did that too. out of sudden a girl will go mengada or cry or emotional -.-' i dont know why women do this, but this is natural. we women couldnt do anything about this. lol

4) women tend to follow their heart and feelings over brain (wait isn't too obvious?) 

yadaa yadaa yadaa


conclusion: there is no way to understand how women behave or what women want. because we women also couldn't explain why we be like this. maybe we are naturally born to be like this.

but there is always a way how to handle her :) i wont tell how to handle her here, because you have to figure out yourself.

another important conclusion: that's why in Islam, men have their own position to be a leader. to lead and take care of women. let me emphasize, untuk membimbing. so again, it's acceptable if women behave like above, but if you are a guy, and you act like a girl, you're worse than a bitch -.-

to the guys esp my guy friends yang always like

'you girls dont know what you want'

'aku tak faham lah kau ni qila. pening aku'

'ape yang dia nak sebenarnya? i tried all things kot'

i still have no reason why -.- but if you really love her, then you should know how to handle her.

stop mebebel like 'perempuan ni complicated lah. susah lah nk handle. mengada lah. tension lah'. 

please accept this facts: no matter how complicated the women are, you always love and attracted to this species :) because we are unique & you guys just couldnt live w/out us (minus gay)

to the girls. if the guy keep scolding/bragging/blaming you for being who you are, keep this in mind 'if he does not accept you at the worst, he doesn't deserve you at the best'. i know it's really hard to leave someone you love (trust me i feel the same), but just believe, someday the right one will come and accept every single flaw that you have :)

important notes: i wrote this based on my observations/my thoughts. there is no scientific evidence and of course not all women behave the same way.

footnote: i'm going to ISK this weekend.

just text me if you think you want to :|