don't have to try, i guess?

i heard a quote saying "never try to explain yourself to people. people who love you didn't need it and people who hate you won't believe it anyway", i know i know

but sometimes, it just over my patience limit, yknow :/
i feel bad, i am not trying to be rude, it just the way i defend myself.

can you please, before simply make a conclusion please do ask first.
(okay, but people are born to be judgemental, me too)
tapi boleh kan kalau simpan dalam hati je, tak payah attack straight forward? :| *terasa*

if and only if life is this easy

"Sometimes we see some people are happy and lucky, but lil that we know they had face the endless hardship before"

p/s-kena minta maaf nie T.T